How many stories have we all heard about long successful marriages that started out with the guy having to work overtime to win over an initially uninterested prospect?
The simple truth is men tend to fall fast and women quite slow. Your idea, where there is apparently some guaranteed quid pro quo of the woman putting out in return for the chicken special is essentially cheap prostitution.
Nope. You mischaracterized what I said.
I inveigh against where the woman goes out for a neal with the premeditation of having a free meal then shutting him down ; regardless of how polished her post-prandial excuses and exit.
It’s the having decided in advance that makes it wrong.
“Your idea, where there is apparently some guaranteed quid pro quo of the woman putting out in return for the chicken special...”
The only one I see expressing that idea is you.