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I Look Down On Young Women With Husbands And Kids And I’m Not Sorry
Thought Catalog blog ^ | January 15, 2014 | Amy Glass

Posted on 01/27/2014 4:28:25 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet

Every time I hear someone say that feminism is about validating every choice a woman makes I have to fight back vomit.

Do people really think that a stay at home mom is really on equal footing with a woman who works and takes care of herself? There’s no way those two things are the same. It’s hard for me to believe it’s not just verbally placating these people so they don’t get in trouble with the mommy bloggers.

Having kids and getting married are considered life milestones. We have baby showers and wedding parties as if it’s a huge accomplishment and cause for celebration to be able to get knocked up or find someone to walk down the aisle with. These aren’t accomplishments, they are actually super easy tasks, literally anyone can do them. They are the most common thing, ever, in the history of the world. They are, by definition, average. And here’s the thing, why on earth are we settling for average?

If women can do anything, why are we still content with applauding them for doing nothing?

I want to have a shower for a woman when she backpacks on her own through Asia, gets a promotion, or lands a dream job not when she stays inside the box and does the house and kids thing which is the path of least resistance. The dominate cultural voice will tell you these are things you can do with a husband and kids, but as I’ve written before, that’s a lie. It’s just not reality.

You will never have the time, energy, freedom or mobility to be exceptional if you have a husband and kids.

I hear women talk about how “hard” it is to raise kids and manage a household all the time. I never hear men talk about this. It’s because women secretly like to talk about how hard managing a household is so they don’t have to explain their lack of real accomplishments. Men don’t care to “manage a household.” They aren’t conditioned to think stupid things like that are “important.”

Women will be equal with men when we stop demanding that it be considered equally important to do housework and real work. They are not equal. Doing laundry will never be as important as being a doctor or an engineer or building a business. This word play is holding us back.


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Politics; Society
KEYWORDS: blogwhore; feminism; marriage; motherhood; success; twisted; ugly
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To: Elsie
Elsie, thats a hoot and LOL. I guess I did spoil my flock somewhat..we planted an acre of alfalfa for them. The rest was just pasture, but alfalfa can give you 2 to 3 paturing...they eat it all down, we closed it off and it grew again and they were off regular pasture and could much that good alfalfa again...Never tried soybeans. :O)
201 posted on 01/28/2014 3:47:49 PM PST by goat granny
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To: goat granny

There’s no fence between my property and the neighbors, so occasionally the goats will get to wander over to sample whatever’s growing.

They’d rather eat leaves off the cornstalks than the corn. While it’s growing up anyway. They just discovered soybeans last year.

Where do you buy alfalfa seeds?


202 posted on 01/28/2014 5:48:43 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie

That was over 20 years ago, but I would guess either the elevator where we got our feed for the goats or the seed store. It was a small rural town and the old hard ware store actually had seeds you could not get in seed packages lined up on the shelf in quart jars...It was the first place I found zucchini bush plant seeds. Hubby passed away in 1990 so it was prior to then. We had our feed receipt at the elevator and would buy it by the 1/2 ton. Our goat feed was....x amount of corn, X amount of oats.....X amount of selenium salt, X amount of molasses and we choose a certain sunflower seed X amount. ......Dag nabit your right, they were spoiled, but the quality of the feed affected the quality of the mohair sheared. They also got selenium salt to lick when they wanted it....In Michigan, there is a lack of selenium in the ground where there feed was grown..IE: Michigan. It was needed or they could get a muscle wasting disease. The kids would at about 1 week get a selenium injection to get them started. (being a nurse helped a lot with taking care of them...I gave all injections, sub Q or muscular.)—— Simular to adding iodine to salt for people. SPOILED BRATS...:o) but loved..


203 posted on 01/28/2014 6:48:32 PM PST by goat granny
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To: goat granny

I checked in between posts and I can get seed at various places near here.

It seems the vegans have ramped the price up due to demand.

Sprouts on your counter might be ok for humans, but goats would need a LOT more than that!

My nursing skills are a bit, shall we say, poor.

My first attempt with CD&T shots got ME stuck and needles bent! (I learned to sneak up on them to give shots. But if the later ones to get a shot knew the OTHERS had gotten one; I’d be in for trouble again.

I watched the lady give Elly Mae her shot at the vet and I learned some then. Petting her, poking at her a bit with your hand, massaging her gets her used to being touched. Then you merely make a tent of skin and slip it in. She didn’t even seem to acknowledge the shot!

When I tried it, I did the same things the vet did, and got the same results. 2 days later, when time for second shot, I stuck her, pressed the plunger and noticed medicine coming out the other side of the pinch of skin, as I’d gone clear thru! I hastily did it right and got half a dose in.

Amazingly, she never gave me any trouble with that shot afterward.


204 posted on 01/28/2014 7:56:38 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie
When you give shots intra-muscular, pull back on the plunger just a fraction to make sure your not in a blood vessel, but if your just pinching up skin that is a sub Q injection and you don't have to make sure where the needle IS but as I was trained I always back the plunger. If your in a vein you'll know immediately
. Its the muscle ones you really have to check...a medication that is going into a muscle is not given into a vein, that's why you check.

I am proud of you, its scary at first to give shots. In nursing my first injection (with the teacher standing by) was a sub Q heparin in the belly. As a student you smile and ooze confidence so the patient does jump out of bed and run down the hall because you never had given an injection before......LOL Sub Q are usually shorter needles than IM.

My husband had plowed and disc the area, it was all weeds, then he had a hand held seeder and just walked the area turning the handle. (maybe you have seen these types of hand seeders (plastic) I don't remember too clear on the amount of seed per acre, but I don't think it was more than 1 1/2 pounds or 2 for an acre of land... Those hand seeders spread the seed out several feet on each side of you. Its not like planting a garden, he walked at a good pace and then changed pace according to how much seed was left in the hand seeder....easy to do, you don't plant alfalfa close, you spread it. Its like spreading any grass seed. Alphfa spreads (reseeds itself every year. And gets thicker after a few years.

Of course you probably know some of this already...:O) VERY PROUD OF YOU FOR GIVING AN INJECTION.

Just to remember to get just a little pinch of flesh to put the needle in, it saves on your fingers getting stuck with said needle.. Vets are amazing. I once told my vet he should teach student nurses. They will hit a vein first stick on dogs and the dogs skin is covered with hair. PS I had to use a different wormer every time I did the flock so they didn't get immune to one kind of wormer. Some were just a few drops on the back of the neck, but one of them was an injection, another a pill (bolus) B S on trying to shove a pill down a goats throat with a balling gun. Tried that only once and went for the needles and the other wormer..

Geeze I type too much like I talk too much...

205 posted on 01/28/2014 9:55:47 PM PST by goat granny (.)
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To: goat granny
Geeze I type too much like I talk too much...

No problem; as I am an information consumer!

Perhaps you can give me a clue about her poop.

Instead of little berries scattered about, she poops out a little ball of them, stuck together.

206 posted on 01/29/2014 4:13:01 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie
If the consistency of the manure is still the same, no problem with little balls of poo. Diarrhea can occur with goats, if one of mine got the SCOURS the name for the diarrhea, I had Pepto bismo to give them. Bought it by the 1/2 gallon, but rarely had to use it...I ended up with one young nanny that seem to get scours every other week. Put 9 of my goats in the county fair, she was the only one that got it. Cleaning up the butt to keep the flys off was just a little yuk job. The reason sheep tails are clipped is to keep poop from plastering tail over the butt hole. Not a problem with goat tails......
207 posted on 01/29/2014 12:25:26 PM PST by goat granny (.)
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To: goat granny

Now if we could just keep some of our fellow FReepers from Flinging this poop around...

;^)


208 posted on 01/29/2014 2:19:25 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
I Look Down On Young Women With Husbands And Kids And I’m Not Sorry


You'd BE even 'sorrier' if we four got hold of you!


209 posted on 01/29/2014 2:22:15 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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