Wow, what a cynical negative attitude....and might I add somewhat naive. Making preparations for failure almost always increase the chances of failure.
“Making preparations for failure almost always increase the chances of failure.”
50%
Lifejackets, spare tires, ejection seats, fire extinguishers, the pistol in the drawer, circuit breakers, emergency exits, exercise, etc etc.
You couldn’t be more wrong. But let’s take your own position for a moment. If preparing for failure is so wrong, and only increases the chance of failure, then why would a woman accept easy access to the money in the event of divorce?
She should approach HIM with a document swearing she only gets the clothes on her back if there is a divorce. “Honey, i want you to know, i choose to stand naked before the chill legal winds, with your love as my only hope of salvation from a fate of poverty. I foreswear any preparation for failure”.
Thank God no civil engineer believes as you do.
Neither do us no-so-civil ones!