“Making preparations for failure almost always increase the chances of failure.”
50%
Lifejackets, spare tires, ejection seats, fire extinguishers, the pistol in the drawer, circuit breakers, emergency exits, exercise, etc etc.
You couldn’t be more wrong. But let’s take your own position for a moment. If preparing for failure is so wrong, and only increases the chance of failure, then why would a woman accept easy access to the money in the event of divorce?
She should approach HIM with a document swearing she only gets the clothes on her back if there is a divorce. “Honey, i want you to know, i choose to stand naked before the chill legal winds, with your love as my only hope of salvation from a fate of poverty. I foreswear any preparation for failure”.
You are obviously unhappy, or at least unhappy relationally, and I am sorry for you. The bitterness is oozing out of your posts. Your misogyny is obvious for all to see.
As for your straw bullsh-t argument - being careful and “preparing for failure” are hardly the same things. Your one sided pathetic argument ignores the fact that they are both entering this thing more or less on equal terms, and that she supported him for an extended period of time.
Now, go write out your alimony check.