Bitterness is always an expensive emotion and should be shed as soon as it is recognized.
It takes much and gives nothing.
It’s hard when one day you think you’re convinced you have all the answers and the next day you realize everything you thought you knew was bullspit.
The King Follett Sermon - Part One
The King Follett Sermon - Part Two
You know there is stuff that you can buy at Target for those cankers of yours.
Oh my!
What a pleasant way to start this thread.
A classic example of projection IMO>
Let me tell you my experience which is similar to what happened to the person that wrote this sad story.
I had a friend for years. Stayed in their house and worked on conservative causes together for years with her and her husband.
Went to many events that they also attended, and we always got a long fine.
One day she took a vicious pot shot at me (on a Religion discussion thread here) , accused me of doing something that I had never done and publicly called me out for this imagined slight on my part.
We both post on this website, and I never knew her religious affiliation for years.
I watched the Mormon threads for months and months, and then decided to post on them because I had studied the LDS religion for years.
Have all the books (old ones, and new "abridged" ones) and read various pro and con arguments from both sides.
One day I decided to post some facts about the LDS church from their own writings, and also some opinions of my own about the organization.
Never in a mean or hateful way, just facts and what I had learned from my studies.
Then one day on a thread here at FR, this friend (we are still friends) posted to me something like this.
A simple sentence, "Why do you hate Mormons?"
I was completely taken aback as I NEVER posted anything that could be considered hate towards the LDS church or any of it's members, only facts and opinions in a most polite way.
It was several days until I could bring myself to answer because of the shock of her assessment of my feelings which was so misguided.
But from reading and posting on threads about the LDS church, I found so much hate and bitterness towards any one that questioned the validity of that church, and also towards those that posted writings from their OWN LDS teachings that show the many un-Biblical beliefs that the Mormons hold to.
It's interesting how you praise the writer of this piece, when she felt like "every cell in my body wanted to hit back as viciously" to the person that offended her.
I never felt that way towards the person that falsely accuse me of hate, only empathy and pity that someone could be so filled with anger towards me for just posting facts and my opinions on the LDS church after my years of research and study.
Thank goodness this writer had a friend to sit her down and talk some sense into her before she viciously lashed out at her acquaintance.
After reading your first statement on this thread, I hope you have a friend like this writer.
How ironic that that should be the first post of this thread.
Thoughtful disagreement, based upon factual information, is not an attack.
I'd been wondering what had happened to you since the thread about the dog.
And we don't even have 60,000 folks out on doorsteps doing it!
What a deal!!