One Night Stranded Should Tell Woman Something

Divorce Interactive ^ | THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 9, 2006 | Susan Deitz

[klossg]

Susan Deitz knows a little about the Theology of the Body.

"a period of celibacy can be extremely creative and fulfilling, and that channeling your libido into self-expression can make you feel more of a woman than any amount of loveless sex."

Amazing!!! Is this a revolution? Are people becoming more aware of the problem of putting all your "eggs" in sex only for physical pleasure?

[peacebaby]

jersey republican biker chick; paulab; chanticleer; Millee; MadCharity; dashing dasher; maximus of texas; hottieboy; day10;r-q-tek86

Take a cold shower PING.

[trubluolyguy]

Dear Desperate,


Don't be a whore. Attend a church. Lots of good strong men there that would love to treat you like a lady.


Trubluolyguy

[dfwgator]

"Get thee to a nunnery!!"

[Cecily]

"How do I ask another man in a way that won't get me rejected again?"


Offer him cash money?

[peacebaby]

Take a cold shower PING.

[Horatio Gates]

Celibacy can be a "hands on" job but I think it's great advice.

[HOTTIEBOY]

OK I don't like this Susan Deitz chick.

[digger48]

Recently, I asked a wonderful single man I know if he'd consider a few hours of "pleasure," no strings attached. He said he would, but then he changed his mind. He didn't give a reason. How do I ask another man in a way that won't get me rejected again?

Can't even GIVE it away, Huh?

[trubluolyguy]

Well I wouldn't go that far, no men there and that seems to be her particular need. Why grab a guy for a "no-strings" romp when there are perfectly good gentlemen that will treat her right. All she has to do is look in the right places.

[peacebaby]

i like your observation.

[RVN Airplane Driver]

How do I ask another man in a way that won't get me rejected again?

Not to worry my dear....limit your field to Army Pilots....We do our best work "above the best"

[HOTTIEBOY]

. """"Lots of good strong men there that would love to treat you like a lady. """"""


That is the problem. She doesn't WANT to be treated like a lady at this particular time.

[trubluolyguy]

I thank you, and my tractor thanks you.

[Logical me]

Here is the irony of the situation. If it was a man that approach a woman this way, he would probably be charges with sexual harassment and face some real problems. Of course the female mind is that men have no problems but just lust.

[peacebaby]

I'm sitting on a fence here...not too sure about the woman asking the man, but then again, she is an adult.

And I know all about feeling alive again, so I'm sympathic to the need.

[peacebaby]

:`)

[Hemingway's Ghost]

Some guy passed on a freebie? This lady must be hideous.

[HOTTIEBOY]

You are right, she can find a good guy to treat her right if she looks in the right places.

Right now she doesn't want that (or maybe her she really does and it has manifested itself into lust). Right now she wants hot monkey love.

[peacebaby]

And just think, it's hard to be rejected...at any age much less middle age.

A lot of babyboomers are finding themselves single in middle age.

Her situation is not unusual.