Hildy, your original vanity said, "Answer this question honestly". so i did....I answered it honestly. Since you seem to want an argument...not just an honest answer....I'll bow out now. You'll not change my mind and I'm sure I won't change yours....and that's fine....we just see things differently.
Well, I think we can at least agree on that! I have to bow out now too. Thank you all for your answers. Some were honestly, poignant, some were dumb, the usual insults. But some really eloquent and interesting answers ... on both sides and I thank you all. I am nothing it not a keeper of my word, so I hope this thread continues, but I will not rain on your mission on the other Terri threads. Adieu.