One of the many? Somehow I never hear of a man being bothered if his bride has cooked dinner for another man. I don't hear many being bent out of shape if his bride has participated in a debate with another man. "Joe's fiancé is a real "bargain basement girl" because she plays chess in a league with a bunch of men" just isn't something you hear very often. Well, if you equate a woman's having sex with other men with having a debate with or played chess with another man, then really, we have nothing to debate. As I say, you can marry a woman who's done the rounds anytime you want.
Does 'done the rounds' mean she's had 2 other sex partners, 10 other partners, 1000 other partners? If she was married and her husband beat her so she divorced, is she a slut for having been married to him? Does that automatically make her 'bargain basement' material?
Do the same rules apply to men? Is a man who's had 2 sexual partners a 'bargain basement' groom?