One of the many? Somehow I never hear of a man being bothered if his bride has cooked dinner for another man. I don't hear many being bent out of shape if his bride has participated in a debate with another man. "Joe's fiancé is a real "bargain basement girl" because she plays chess in a league with a bunch of men" just isn't something you hear very often. [I used that term 'bargain basement girl' because it is one that was used earlier in the thread by a conservative to describe a non-virgin girl]
Well, if you equate a woman's having sex with other men with having a debate with or played chess with another man, then really, we have nothing to debate. As I say, you can marry a woman who's done the rounds anytime you want.