[christine]

i know it has, dan. but when before has oral sex NOT been sex?

kinda like the new definition of "is."

[Dan from Michigan]

I'm going to get flamed here.

I honestly think of it as a grey area. It is, but it isn't. To use the baseball definition - 2nd base. There;s a reason it's only called 2nd base.

(putting on flame suit)