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Chinese boy, 5, abandoned at kindergarten by father after he found out the child is not his biological son
South China Morning Post ^ | 12 Jul, 2022 | Liya Su

Posted on 07/13/2022 4:03:23 PM PDT by nickcarraway

Father packed a phone and a change of clothes then dumped the boy at his kindergarten and never came back Teachers found the family home abandoned with no sign of the boy’s family, relatives contacted by the school refused to come and take him

A five-year-old boy has been abandoned at his kindergarten in China after his father discovered he was not his biological son. The little boy, identified in local media reports by the pseudonym “Xiao Rui”, was abandoned at the kindergarten last week by his father after he dropped the child off for the day.

When no one arrived to collect the boy that afternoon, staff contacted his parents and relatives, but none of them wanted him back.

The boy’s teacher, surnamed Chen, said Xiao Rui was enrolled at the kindergarten in April this year, and that his father brought him to the kindergarten in Guangxi province, southern China, and picked him up at the end of each school day, the Jiangxi Morning Daily reported.

The father, who was not named, told Chen he wouldn’t come for the boy because he had discovered that Xiao Rui was not his own son after getting a paternity test. The father then told Chen the boy was now the school’s problem.

Chen later discovered that Xiao Rui’s father had packed a change of clothes and a mobile phone in the boy’s bag on the last day he dropped him off. ‘Not pornography’: hysteria in China over ‘sexy’ male pole dancers in water park 9 Jul 2022

The father continued to speak to the school on the phone after this but refused to collect the boy. When Chen went to the house where the boy had lived with his parents she found it empty. The whereabouts of the boy’s mother is also unknown.

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To: FLT-bird

Classy, scum.


41 posted on 07/13/2022 6:16:29 PM PDT by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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To: FLT-bird
were they married at the time?....if he didn't marry the woman he shouldn't expect her life to just be put in limbo while he figures it out....

I hope he didn't kill the mother.....

he sounds like a word for a very bad arrogant little man.....

God bless the child.....

42 posted on 07/13/2022 6:18:13 PM PDT by cherry (;)
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To: nickcarraway

I’d be making sure the mother is still among the living later on as ‘dad’ seems to be pretty cold blooded.


43 posted on 07/13/2022 6:33:10 PM PDT by dynachrome (“We cannot save Ukraine by dooming the US economy.” Rand Paul)
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To: FLT-bird

So many will blame the mother and the child - but the father doesn’t sound like a great guy.


44 posted on 07/13/2022 6:37:27 PM PDT by ladyjane
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To: ifinnegan

You’re the one who started it jagoff.


45 posted on 07/13/2022 6:39:39 PM PDT by FLT-bird
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To: MayflowerMadam
Hubby was surrounded by Chinese roommates and classmates while at Berkeley. “They” do not think the way we do. Ever.

So true

46 posted on 07/13/2022 6:40:29 PM PDT by ladyjane
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To: FLT-bird
I’ll never go along with anybody who says the guy should have just raised him as his anyway. How could you even stay around after that? That’s gotta be the ultimate betrayal.

A thought to add to this - its highly doubtful that everything was just lovely and wonderful between this guy and his wife before he found it. There were likely many red flags and suspicious over a long time before he dropped the kid off at the school on that last day. He probably likely knows who the kid's real father is. No wonder he is pissed off.

47 posted on 07/13/2022 6:45:49 PM PDT by PGR88
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To: nickcarraway

This story tears my heart out.


48 posted on 07/13/2022 6:46:24 PM PDT by Old Grumpy
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To: HamiltonJay

I don’t see it the way you do. Don’t you claim that this man has a responsibility for this child. He doesn’t. Its not his child. The one who has that responsibility is the father. He is not the father.

He’s just the poor guy who got cheated on and used in the worst way by the ho of a wife. If he wants to raise the kid as his that’s one thing. If he doesn’t feel as though he can bear to be around the visible reminder his wife cheated on him and used him in this way, I understand.

The ones to be mad at here are the cheating wife and the man she had a child with and who has not taken responsibility for that child.


49 posted on 07/13/2022 6:46:57 PM PDT by FLT-bird
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To: FLT-bird

It’s an innocent child that thought the man was his father- can you imagine what that little boy is going through? How could you love someone and then do this because of genetics?

This is simply monstrous


50 posted on 07/13/2022 6:47:44 PM PDT by panzerkamphwageneinz (0 )
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To: ladyjane

I’ve said he should have arranged to leave the child with his mother. But I completely understand if he cannot bear to stick around. He’s not the one who created this godawful mess. That would be the cheating wife and the man she cheated with and made the baby with. Those are the people who need to take responsibility here.


51 posted on 07/13/2022 6:48:42 PM PDT by FLT-bird
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To: panzerkamphwageneinz
It’s an innocent child that thought the man was his father- can you imagine what that little boy is going through? How could you love someone and then do this because of genetics? This is simply monstrous

So the guy is at fault if he doesn't agree to be a complete spineless cuck? How about if he - after this horrendous betrayal - feels as though he cannot be a good father to a child that is the product of his wife's betrayal?

Monstrous is cheating on your spouse. Even more monstrous is using your spouse for years by making them think this child is theirs when it is not. Its not "just genetics" as you would have it. There's a lot more to this story than that. This isn't remotely the same as adopting a child. That is not a betrayal. That you undertake voluntarily. That's totally different from this.

52 posted on 07/13/2022 6:53:43 PM PDT by FLT-bird
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To: dfwgator

Her boyfriend’s name is Sum Yung Gy.


53 posted on 07/13/2022 7:02:55 PM PDT by shotgun
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To: nickcarraway
If it were possible, I'd take this child. What an as***le guy.
54 posted on 07/13/2022 7:55:35 PM PDT by neverevergiveup
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To: nickcarraway

BS.

My money is on the ‘father’ finding out the boy was a half-breed (mixed race). Proof: The family wants nothing to do with the boy. I bet the mother hooked up with a foreigner.

Chinese are racist, evil in this respect. Most of those 193k orphans in 2020 were of mixed race.

My niece was lucky enough to have been adopted and brought here by my well-meaning sis. She’s clueless as to how good she’s got it here, and most reading this haven’t a clue as to the nature of the abuse my niece was subjected to in her orphanage.


55 posted on 07/13/2022 8:28:15 PM PDT by logi_cal869 (-cynicus the "concern troll" a/o 10/03/2018 /!i!! &@$%&*(@ -)
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To: rellic; FLT-bird

Everyone seems to assume the woman cheated. Had it occured to any of you that she may have been raped, possibly by a boss or another relative? It is a very harsh culture over there; but rape and sexual harassment happen everywhere.


56 posted on 07/13/2022 8:57:00 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (The “time out” generation didn’t produce as good a result as the @#$whoopin' generation. --Bob434)
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To: FLT-bird
Don’t you claim that this man has a responsibility for this child. He doesn’t. Its not his child. The one who has that responsibility is the father. He is not the father.

Under American law, if the couple is married, then the child is legally the responsibility of the husband, blood or not.

Surely there is a third way; such as the father taking the child home and finding a legal adoption agency or some kind of social service agency for the child, rather than tossing him like trash. It's not the child's fault.

57 posted on 07/13/2022 9:02:18 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (The “time out” generation didn’t produce as good a result as the @#$whoopin' generation. --Bob434)
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To: Albion Wilde

Good point. We need to know full details. Thr little boy is the innocent victim. Mom may be a slut. We do not know important facts.


58 posted on 07/13/2022 9:02:43 PM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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To: jimwatx

It seems the mother may be alive, per the article. I certainly hope so.


59 posted on 07/14/2022 12:01:27 AM PDT by jocon307 (No Dems win - Nov 22)
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To: Albion Wilde

if that happened then for goodness’ sake tell the husband. Do not use him like this raising a child that is not his. That’s the ultimate betrayal.


60 posted on 07/14/2022 1:34:03 AM PDT by FLT-bird
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