[ClearCase_guy]

Don’t give me that. That’s the crap that always shows up on these threads.

It’s NOT the same as it was decades ago.

Yes, people had sex in college in the 1800’s, and the 1920s and the 1950s and the 1980s. We know that it happened.

But not like this. No. It’s mendacious to say that the hook up culture we have today was always there to the degree it is now. The behavior we see today would have been classified as a mental illness not long ago. It’s not AT ALL healthy, and most people know that.

To pass it off as “same old same old” is BAD.

[rlmorel]

ClearCase_guy Is correct in this case, in my opinion.

I can without a doubt, even I never lived in that era, be certain that there was a time in this country not long ago where people would view that kind of attitude with actual shock.

And I certainly don’t think that it was ever prevalent. If there was a woman by the college campus who felt this way, I am pretty sure that the guys all over campus (and the women as well) would do exactly who she was.

[MrEdd]

There were girls behaving exactly like this in my high school in the seventies. You saw only what you CHOSE to see. Yeah they hid it unless they decided not to get an abortion but the behavior was the same.

[detective]

When I was in college I had sex with girls I didn't like that much. I didn't hate them or anything. They were ok. But there was no strong connection or feeling.

It's not something I'm proud of. I'm just saying it happened a lot back in the 70’s and 80’s.

It was part of growing up.

[wintertime]

Again, I must agree.

It is the same attitude seen on the hot teacher threads. They almost always show up.