Lives are complicated things. I certainly know good people who have found that especially when a spouse still lives but can't function for nearly fifteen years, people find they still need companionship in life. I would not tell my husband that he must stop living because I did. Those stresses only get worse as fifteen years go by.
But you didn't answer my question. Are we against activist courts or not? Can families make these calls or only the courts? Are the courts only activists if they disagree with you?
I have no issue at all that MS moved on and I do not begrudge him a life and children... but he had a conflict of interest here and denied her parents the ability to take care of their child. They are family as well, no?