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What Your Fantasies Say about You. (Women's fantasies)
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Posted on 03/10/2005 9:58:38 AM PST by pissant

1. Sex with a stranger Bumping into an attractive stranger dominates many women's thoughts. Usually these fantasies involve an element of surprise. You may take on a new role, such as that of a nurse who satisfies her patients, or an air hostess who joins the Mile High Club! What this one says about you: Things may have become stale with your lover. This is no-strings escapism.

2. You in control You may fantasise you're dressed in black leather with your man tied to the bed as your sex slave. Here, you're taking charge because your lover has to do what he's told. Perhaps a stranger even falls into your clutches. What this one says about you: Your lover may have more sexual confidence than you and this gives you a release for your more assertive side.

3. Him in control Some women fantasise about their partner dominating them, such as being tied up or told what to do. Very often the fantasy revolves around you being busy, then your man arrives and everything else is flung aside. What this one says about you: You want to give up sexual responsibility and have things done to you. Such fantasies allow you to do things you may be embarrassed about. In this case, you can blame it all on him.

4. High-risk sex These fantasies can take place antwhere, in the office, in a lift, on the back of a bus or down a side street. Maybe you dream of getting caught by your lover - with someone else. What this one says about you: Such fantasies show you have a risk-taking edge which may be repressed in your real-life lovemaking. You could spice things up with sex in your back garden under the stars - as long as you're not overlooked by a block of flats!

5. Sexual exhibitionism Many women fantasise about being a stripper or lap dancer and driving men crazy with lust. Maybe you fantasise about giving a sex show at a party, turning on all the spectators. What this one says about you: You're dying to burst free from your normal inhibited sexual behaviour. You may crave sexual reassurance.

6. Sex with women Women find lesbian fantasies hugely erotic. They allow you to explore sensual thoughts with someone who truly understands your desires - another woman. These fantasies often involve tender, longer-lasting lovemaking. What this one says about you: Women are more comfortable exploring same sex fantasies than men. Most women can see the allure of an attractive woman and so enjoy exploring this in their fantasy life. Such fantasies don't reflect your sexuality unless they come to dominate your thoughts.

7. Group sex Many women find it thrilling to fantasise that they are in the middle of an orgy. They get aroused by the thought of touching all sorts of people, and being fondled from all sides. They completely let go, imagining pleasure from lots of different sources. These fantasies often involve strangers but may include your lover and/or people you know and find attractive. What this one says about you: This appeals to your daring side. Getting involved in group sex is a heady mix of risk and an exploration of ultimate sexual possibilities.

8. Exotic captivity Some women find it hugely erotic to imagine being held prisoner in an exotic location. Perhaps a stranger who doesn't speak your language and can merely do things to you, takes you captive. Usually women imagine ending up in a harem, being kept purely for the sexual pleasure of their captor. What this one says about you: You want to explore domination and you have a lot of hidden sexual creativity.

9. Giving sex lessons Teaching sexual skills to a gorgeous young, but legal, man is popular with women. By taking him step by step through sexual pleasures, you will also be wonderfully indulged. What this one says about you: You definitely want to take control. Perhaps you're quite inhibited so this is non-threatening as the focus of your fantasy knows little about sex.

10. The casting couch Being asked to perform sexual favours for a job you're dying to get is a fantasy for many women. The scenario usually ends up with you getting the job, because, of course, this is a fantasy in which you are a resounding sexual success! The director or boss finds you so fulfilling they have to give you what you want. What this one says about you: Part of you wants to prove yourself. Mixing work and sex shows you are driven.


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To: xsmommy

My favorite example of tragedy involves shooting a lawyer...and missing.


61 posted on 03/10/2005 5:49:25 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("I live in Michigan, but even if I lived in Kuala Lumpur I'd still think you were an idiot.")
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To: Darksheare
Last fantasy I heard dealing with a lawyer had something to do with duct tape and rope.

That, and burning in effigy. It was truly bizarre, and worthy of being recorded and have a 're-enactment' video done.

Sounds like "America's Funniest Home Videos" material to me!

62 posted on 03/10/2005 5:50:32 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("I live in Michigan, but even if I lived in Kuala Lumpur I'd still think you were an idiot.")
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To: Slings and Arrows

i always feel the love on these threads when the lawyer bashing starts : )


63 posted on 03/10/2005 5:51:56 PM PST by xsmommy
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To: xsmommy
i always feel the love on these threads when the lawyer bashing starts : )

Some things just bring us all together as people.

64 posted on 03/10/2005 5:54:39 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("I live in Michigan, but even if I lived in Kuala Lumpur I'd still think you were an idiot.")
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To: Slings and Arrows

lawyers are people too : ) well i suppose that just leaves we lawyers to fantasize about each other. luckily my hub is one too : )


65 posted on 03/10/2005 5:56:39 PM PST by xsmommy
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To: Slings and Arrows

Well, there was the whole "Get ze monster!" section to it from the original black and white Frankenstein movie.
But the angry villagers burst the door down instead.

Hmm..
If I had ANY talent with video editing and filming.. but I don't.
*sigh*


66 posted on 03/10/2005 6:10:37 PM PST by Darksheare (If you were in my heart I'd surely not break you. If you were beside me and my love would take you.)
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To: xsmommy; Slings and Arrows

I actually ran into a very attractive lady lawyer awhile back.
I do get the feeling that she was 'worse than I' in the 'perve-ometer' area of love life though.

Sadly, it wouldn't have worked out as she was fun to speak to, but we weren't each other's type.


67 posted on 03/10/2005 6:19:51 PM PST by Darksheare (If you were in my heart I'd surely not break you. If you were beside me and my love would take you.)
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To: Xenalyte
Al Bundy:

All the ladies want a piece of Polk High School's finest, don't they?

(Goes into classic quarterback stance. Flexes in front of mirror. Stares admiringly at own heinie.)

:&)

68 posted on 03/10/2005 6:54:18 PM PST by Do not dub me shapka broham (Protagoras was the leading SOPHIST of his day. Think about it.)
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To: Darksheare; Slings and Arrows; martin_fierro; mountaineer; cyborg; xsmommy
Oh, come on, even us unfrozen caveman lawyers deserve to be loved, don't we?


69 posted on 03/10/2005 7:25:42 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: Larry Lucido

Hey, I remember that guy! He was on the OJ defense team!

[RIP Phil Hartman.]


70 posted on 03/10/2005 7:32:33 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("I live in Michigan, but even if I lived in Kuala Lumpur I'd still think you were an idiot.")
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To: xsmommy; Larry Lucido

71 posted on 03/10/2005 7:35:53 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("I live in Michigan, but even if I lived in Kuala Lumpur I'd still think you were an idiot.")
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To: pissant
2. You in control You may fantasise you're dressed in black leather with your man tied to the bed as your sex slave. Here, you're taking charge because your lover has to do what he's told. What this one says about you: Your lover may have more sexual confidence than you and this gives you a release for your more assertive side.

If I tried this at home, my husband would just die...of a heart attack!

72 posted on 03/10/2005 7:37:33 PM PST by TheWriterInTexas (Proud Retrosexual Wife)
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To: CzarNicky
I'm going to sit here and watch.

You have won the wit award right off. LOL, and tally ho!

73 posted on 03/10/2005 7:37:33 PM PST by Travis McGee (----- www.EnemiesForeignAndDomestic.com -----)
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To: TheWriterInTexas

Stephen King wrote a book about that. Cat's Cradle, I think it was.


74 posted on 03/10/2005 7:41:02 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: Larry Lucido
I've got a lot of his books, but that isn't one of them. Thanks for the tip!

As it is, this list is definitely for single women. Married women's fantasies include MAID SERVICE, a good baby sitter, a day at the spa, a paid credit card balance, etc., etc.

Man, my life is dull!

75 posted on 03/10/2005 7:47:27 PM PST by TheWriterInTexas (Proud Retrosexual Wife)
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To: Darksheare

You just wanted to get her torts into your briefs.


76 posted on 03/10/2005 8:07:07 PM PST by Slings and Arrows ("I live in Michigan, but even if I lived in Kuala Lumpur I'd still think you were an idiot.")
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To: TheWriterInTexas

Man, what was I thinking? The King book was called Gerald's Game. About a kinky game gone bad. Came out in 1990 or so.

For some reason I had Kurt Vonnegut on my mind.


77 posted on 03/10/2005 8:13:15 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: TheWriterInTexas

lol same here! Not that I'd want to - I'd never even consider it. Sheesh, I got in trouble just for having the moxie to so brazenly post on this thread. lol


78 posted on 03/10/2005 10:32:18 PM PST by Trinity_Tx (Most of our so-called reasoning consists in finding arguments for going on believin as we already do)
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To: njwoman
"How about not having any fantasies because you tried them all? :-)"

Pen, paper at the ready here..........and you are where, again???

79 posted on 03/11/2005 4:51:06 AM PST by RightOnline
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To: Drew68
Lord, the stories I could tell about working for five years for this company!

Lord knows those stories and im assuming he wasn't amused. ;)

80 posted on 03/11/2005 4:59:29 AM PST by smith288 (The GOP, Ditech of politics... "lost another one to GOP" - Howard dean)
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