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After lurking for years, I am finally submitting my first post. My liberal Bush hating Mother wrote me this letter. Following is my response. Any suggestions to enhance my response would be appreciated. (Her reference to state parks is because I am a park Ranger).

Dear Frank,

How is taking out Saddam getting rid of the fundamentalist Islamics all over the world? How is it stopping the spread of the above? We are the country (not France and Germany) that is becoming less relevant in the eyes of Europeans.

I equate Bush with dictatorship. Yes, with Hitler--he started out saying he was going to liberate all the countries that he took over. He pre-emptively took over those countries. He was arrogant and a bully. Bush can't wait to get his hand on Iraqi oil. He is an arrogant ass.

If I were president I would not have done my arrogant best to get all the allies to hate us. I would not start a war without figuring out how we will pay for it and how long we will be there. I would put more money into homeland security instead of sending all the troops overseas. I would not drill in the artic. I would not let our forests be cut down indiscriminately. I would deal with Saddam through the United Nations, not go it alone.

I would be sick to hear that the Pentagon has ordered 75,000 body bags (and they have) to send our youth back home in. I would not call it liberating the Iraqi people by going in and blasting them to kingdom come. I would not cover the truth with saying we will "liberate" the people of Iraq. I would tell the Americans that it will take trillions (this is the number that has been reported on CNN and in many papers) and that we may be in Iraq for ten years or more. After "Liberating" the people out of their homes and into the hereafter we will have to rebuild the place.

Where will the money come from since we already have a huge deficit? It will come down to the cities and states which will get less and less money and cut more and more services (maybe even close state parks if it gets bad enough) and state and local taxes will skyrocket even more than it has. Are you willing to pay the price to get rid of Saddam? Trillions of dollars sunk into that sink hole, maybe thousands of American lives lost not to mention increased terrorism here in the US as retaliation for the war; huge deficits, an economy even more messed up than it now is; a stock market that doesn't know which way is up.

I am through talking about this. You can send all the quotes you want. I won't read any more of it. The whole thing is making me ill.

Can we please quit talking about this. It makes me ill.

MY RESPONSE SO FAR...

Dear Mom,

I’m confused…Why do you think you can express your opinions to me and then deny my right to reply to your questions? I’m going to exercise my right and respond to your latest email.

Your first question asked how taking out Saddam gets rid of the Islamic fundamentalists worldwide. My answer is that it does not!

Next you asked how is it stopping the spread of the fundamentalists’ agenda. My answer again is that it is not!

Please allow me to share my thoughts on exactly what removing Saddam will accomplish.

First, it will stop the thousands of murders Saddam is committing on his own people. The very latest atrocity reported is that he is now executing some of his own scientists so they cannot reveal his WMD secrets. I can give you the reference for this if you doubt it.

Next, I believe it will greatly reduce the Islamic fundamentalists’ ability to acquire WMD that they want to use on us. Saddam has them; the Islamic wackos have already tried to get them. We must dismantle the worldwide terrorist organization and ridding the world of Saddam is just one step. Fasten your seat belt because there are more countries harboring and training terrorists. They’re next and I support it. We must prevent them from getting a nuke or it’s goodbye to an American city.

I don’t know where you are getting your information from but there are many more European countries (16 out of 19) that support us than don’t. That doesn’t sound like we’re ‘going it alone’. If you would like a reference on this point let me know.

You state President Bush is a dictator. A dictator is a ruler who is not effectively restricted by a Constitution, laws or recognized opposition. A dictator is a person who makes pronouncements which are regarded as supremely authoritative. Hitler was a dictator; President Bush is not a dictator. Saddam is a dictator; President Bush is not like Saddam. President Bush is our President. President Bush believes in defending our country. Deal with it.

You stated Bush can’t wait to get his hand on Iraqi oil. I find that a ridiculous statement and cannot agree with it as we were there in Kuwait and Iraq before and didn’t take over the oil fields. Think about it. If that was the case why didn’t we do it then? There is no country in the world that could have prevented it. Look at it this way. We’re in Kuwait right now. Are we trying to take over their oil? It would be very easy to do so…

Your statement that Bush is an arrogant ass is your personal opinion and has nothing to do with whether or not we should remove Saddam from power. President Truman, a president I respect, did not earn the nickname ‘Give’em Hell Harry’ by being gentle and/or being politically correct. Your statement tells me that you are one of those who are blinded by your dislike for this Republican President. Let me prove it. Everywhere you see Bush’s name, replace it with Clinton’s name. Does the picture change any? You know it does. Fact: President Bush and President Clinton both shared the same view on removing Saddam from power and their view is for the protection of the USA. When Clinton launched hundreds of cruise missiles and deployed our military in other countries without going to the UN first, no one in the world stood up and complained. Not even the UN! Nor you!

President Bush is not doing his arrogant best to get the ‘allies’ to hate us. Where did you get that idea? Again, I say your bias is blinding you. President Bush is forcing the UN to do what they were supposed to be doing over the past several years. What good is the UN if they issue resolutions and then don’t back them up? Seventeen resolutions in twelve years (eight of those years being under President Clinton’s watch) have been issued to Saddam to disarm and the only change is that he constantly continues his quest for more WMD. Even as he is currently destroying those illegal missiles, he is producing more. Where is it going to stop? Someone must stand up to him and that is exactly what President Bush is doing, with the support of the MAJORITY of European governments. Thank God we have a president with the conviction to protect our country from evil. Rather than selling missile secrets to China for cash, rather than setting up Korea with the ability to make nuclear bombs, he is standing up to the “axis of evil”. No wonder they hate us.

Do you know that there are pro-war rallies nationwide? Do you know there are people who see the need to disarm Saddam, French people and German people who support President Bush? I’ll bet you didn’t. It seems like our liberal news channels are ignoring these facts. You mentioned CNN; I rest my case.

You said you would not start a war without figuring out the cost. Like we did that with Japan, Germany, Korea and Vietnam? Please tell me how you would calculate the cost of the war prior to the war. There are so many variables involved I would not even attempt to do so. We are still in Japan and Germany after WWII but look at what we’ve done with those two fascist countries. Was it worth it? I would certainly say it was.

I agree with you in that more should be done with homeland security but not sending the troops overseas as you stated seems to me to be sort of an isolationist attitude. Let me ask you this. Did you protest when Clinton involved us with more overseas deployments of our military then any other President in history? All without UN sanction… When Americans were dieing from these deployments did you protest?

What would bringing the troops home do to increase homeland security? It is against the law to use federal troops on the border. It is against the law to use the military as civilian police. So what would you do? Declare martial law and have the military run the country? I don’t think so. Do you want the military standing on every corner of our cities, checking our IDs and asking for reasons of being at a certain location without their approval?

Your statement about drilling in the Arctic and not cutting down the forests does not fit in the scope of ousting Saddam Hussein. It sounds like Bush bashing to me.

You say you would deal with Saddam through the UN rather that going it alone. What do you think has been happening for the past 12 years in the UN, resolution after resolution? What do you think President Bush has been doing? How many more resolutions and years of delay must pass before we take a different course? And where do you get the idea that we are ‘going it alone’? Look at the facts. There are currently 35 nations in the “Coalition of the Willing.”

I have a friend who told me the definition of stupidity. “Stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results”. Doesn’t this sound like the UN?

Yes, the Pentagon has ordered body bags. It happens every time prior to the possibility of war. It doesn’t mean they will all come back full, does it? There are tens of thousands of white crosses marking our brave soldiers’ graves on foreign soils, particularly in France. The French would be speaking German today if our brave President at that time in history had not stepped up to the plate.

You paint a pretty pessimistic scenario in reference to removing Saddam. I would venture to say it will be a lot cheaper to stop him now before he expands and takes over the Middle East and who knows how far out he will go after that. And yes I am willing to pay the price to stop Saddam. I am willing to pay the price to stop the radical Islamic Fundamentalists. I am not willing to see our country nuked by WMD furnished by countries like Iraq that support the Muslim movement to take over the world using violence. I would not have it any other way.

You referred to Iraq as ‘that sinkhole’; you mentioned the possibility of American lives being lost and the possibility of retaliation in the US. First of all, Iraq is not a sink hole. It is a country of people like you and me that are being crushed by a murderous dictator. These people are not barbarians. They are educated people like us without the freedom we enjoy. You forget to mention that they might lose lives along with us. The Iraqis who have managed to escape from Iraq know that and are still willing to do what it takes to oust Saddam. They realize freedom is not free and without sacrifice. What has happened to the compassion from the left for the people of Iraq? Just as the radical Islamic Fundamentalists are willing to die for their cause, so must we. Kill or be killed…

I am sorry for you that this subject is making you ill. I am worried and fearful, too. I hope and pray there will be no war. But I also realize that for a free democratic world to exist, we must rid ourselves of the terrorists’ world wide that are striving to destroy us. We cannot negotiate these evil empires away. History tells us freedom comes through strength and action. I really think that if you could somehow overlook your dislike for Bush you’d have a different opinion on removing Saddam.

Letting your personal feelings for our President cloud your perspective and burying your head in the sand is not the answer.

I find your last statement very interesting. You stated “Can we please quit talking about this? It is making me ill”. I have heard this sentiment from others who do not want to face reality. Are you using it as a defense to terminate the discussion because you really don’t have an answer or that perhaps you know I am right?

Your Son,

Frank

1 posted on 03/06/2003 9:46:29 AM PST by CommandoFrank
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To: CommandoFrank
Ouch. What kind of day and age do we live in where sons FReep their mommies?

OK. Here's an answer: Dear Mom. You are wrong. Get bent. Do you want a fancy, private nursing home or a crappy government-funded one? Your loving son.

26 posted on 03/06/2003 10:12:53 AM PST by SquirrelKing ("Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock." - Will Rogers)
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Commando Frank:

After many years of lurking - your post finally pushed me over the top to sign on - I think the letter your mother wrote was almost identical to one mine may have written to me. While I have tried to better inform my parents - there is no way - Hey they love Clinton - does that say it all? Anyhow, Frank - I think you may be my "adopted" brother.
29 posted on 03/06/2003 10:18:29 AM PST by jeeperz
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To: CommandoFrank
Welcome to Free Republic - you're gonna like it here.

Great response to your mom. I just hope that this disagreement is not one that is going to be damaging to your relationship with her.

As far as her not wanting to talk about it any more, I feel that way about my adult daughter, who has the same viewpoints as your mom. I just don't want to hear anything more that she has to say about it, because what's the use of arguing? She's not going to change her opinion, nor am I.

Funny - I only have two children - the liberal older daughter, and the younger daughter, a proud military wife who fully supports our President and this effort.

30 posted on 03/06/2003 10:22:38 AM PST by Inspectorette
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To: CommandoFrank
If you wish to continue to have any sort of civil relationship with your mother...you're better off avoiding politics in general and GWB specifically. You are not going to change her mind and she is not going to change yours.

Since it's your mother, it's not about right or wrong...it's about getting along

31 posted on 03/06/2003 10:24:41 AM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts (®)
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To: CommandoFrank
This would get her attention:

Dear Mom,

I believe so much in my convictions that I have signed up for infantry duty in the US Army. If one of those 75,000 body bags is meant for me, then so be it. I am willing to die for what I believe is right.

Love,

Your Son
32 posted on 03/06/2003 10:27:38 AM PST by Between the Lines
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To: CommandoFrank
What a amazingly well-wriiten and well-researched response. My hat is off to you, sir.
34 posted on 03/06/2003 10:30:26 AM PST by Under the Radar
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To: CommandoFrank
I go with you must have been adopted.
36 posted on 03/06/2003 10:32:03 AM PST by cynicom
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To: CommandoFrank
Frank! My long lost brother!

Well if you're not, you could be. This is exactly the sort of letter my hopelessly liberal parents would write me. They too love to employ the tactic of spewing their views at me and then slamming the door shut and refusing to listen to mine.
37 posted on 03/06/2003 10:33:50 AM PST by T Minus Four
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To: CommandoFrank
Awesome response! I couldn't have said it better myself!
38 posted on 03/06/2003 10:34:32 AM PST by Core_Conservative (Prayer for those who Serve our Country - I also pray for our President for the Wisdom of Solomon)
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To: CommandoFrank
I am going through the same thing with my sister and after lots of personal insults towards me and my family I am not speaking with her until she apoplogizes.

40 posted on 03/06/2003 10:42:15 AM PST by finnman69 (!)
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To: CommandoFrank
Just wanted to add a little perspective to the body bag statistic. During our pre-deployment briefing for the original Gulf War, we were told the Pentagon had ordered 100,000 body bags for that conflict.

Hope that helps...
41 posted on 03/06/2003 10:44:55 AM PST by Devman
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To: CommandoFrank
How I've been dealing with the liberals I know is, I tell them some of Saddam's torture stories, and then use one or more of the following lines:
Should we just ignore this?
If you hear a woman screaming in an alley, do you just walk away?
I don't like the US being the World Cop either, but who else can stop this mugging?
If it were about oil, don't you think it would be cheaper to BUY it?
Yes, we did support Saddam in his war against Iran. Doesn't that mean we have an even greater responsibility to remove him now?

Though from the tone of your mother's letter, it doesn't sound like anything you tell her will work. For the sake of the relationship, I'd write the "agree-to-disagree" letter someone suggested earlier, then let it go. When she sees the pictures of the mass graves and WMD that we are GOING TO FIND (the inspectors can't find them, but the Marines sure can), she'll come around. At that point, no matter how hard the words "I told you so" are fighting to get out of your mouth, choke them back.
45 posted on 03/06/2003 10:50:02 AM PST by nina0113
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To: CommandoFrank
I was a everyday lurker since jones/lewinsky day jan/1998. I recently made my first post as well. Welcome! Your refutation is good.
46 posted on 03/06/2003 10:50:12 AM PST by KickRightRudder
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To: CommandoFrank
My mom is very liberal as well. It got much worse after she befriended a bunch of socialist college professors (a redundancy, I know).

Whenever she tells me about the war protest she attended or how some evil conservative is going to destroy America, I just try my best to ignore it and not get pissed off. I've learned to not even bother arguing with her. Making logical, factual, rational points against someone who makes "arguments" based upon moral/cultural relativism and emotions is like arguing with a brick wall. When I try, she either says nothing and abruptly changes the subject, or calls me a "bigoted arch-conservative redneck" or similar.

She really helped to shape my political views. Once I began critically thinking about and debunking her views (when I was around 10 years old), it really opened my eyes.
48 posted on 03/06/2003 10:54:55 AM PST by mn12
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To: CommandoFrank
My dad, who flew B-52's in Vietnam, shocked me when after the 2000 election, I said something good about Bush, and he unleashed a barrage (sp?) of hatred towards him (Bush). After that, I just never brought up politics again. The closest I came was after 9-11, and I asked him what he thought about it, and he said it was one thing for them to hit the Pentagon, that was a military target, but it was wrong for them to purposefully attack civilian targets. I just saw no need to burn a bridge with my dad. My gay liberal brother tried to argue once, just once with me about why the gov't should force drug companies to give away AIDS medicine, especially overseas. After I asked him about their cost for r&d and went on about lifestyle choices (wearing condoms, etc) he was ready to get off the phone. He did send he a funny card making fun of Bush for Christmas. It was funny, and I am not going to take it that personally. When you know you're right, it really doesn't bother you that much. You know you're right, let it go with your mom. Just make sure you tell her you love her.
49 posted on 03/06/2003 10:59:14 AM PST by eyespysomething (Freedom and liberty have a price. Who paid yours? Thank someone today!)
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Frank, mom never told me I had a brother.
50 posted on 03/06/2003 11:00:52 AM PST by muggs
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Nice letter, Frank.

Now go give your Mother a kiss and tell her "I love you".

You don't need to remind her she has the brain of Daffy Duck. She probably already suspects it as she has told you she doesn't want to hear your reasonable answers to her nutty ramblings.

The poor thing just needs a hug.

52 posted on 03/06/2003 11:04:34 AM PST by Gritty
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To: CommandoFrank
I am through talking about this. You can send all the quotes you want. I won't read any more of it. The whole thing is making me ill.

Can we please quit talking about this. It makes me ill.

Yet another bit of evidence for Larry Elder's adage:

"Facts to a liberal are like kryptonite to Superman."

Whatever you write, be sure to send along one of those lead X-ray cloaks for your mother's safety.




53 posted on 03/06/2003 11:09:53 AM PST by Sabertooth
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Excellent reply, Frank!! I count my blessings that my parents were conservatives, and passed it down.

The only thing I would add it the evidence of Iraqi money to the Taliban and Usama. Yes, getting Saddam will thwart the spread of terror and these fanatics.

Good luck!

Becki

54 posted on 03/06/2003 11:14:50 AM PST by Becki (It's time to bomb Saddam!)
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To: CommandoFrank
I applaud your response and if you hadn't mentioned being a park ranger I would have thought this was a letter my mother-in-law wrote to my brother-in-law.

She spits some serious venom when attempting to discuss GWB and politics in general. Her attempt to deny your response was right out of my mother-in-law's handbook. "Here's what I think about your President and I don't want to discuss it!"

BTW, just being picky here:

"When Americans were dying from these deployments did you protest?"

55 posted on 03/06/2003 11:21:39 AM PST by Hatteras (The Thundering Herd Of Turtles ROCK!)
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