[HeartofGold]

The part about the fault is a matter of his opinion. He can blame her for not having sex with him, or he can look at how he was treating her and maybe he wasn't loving her, but just using her for what he could get. Then it is never enough because no person call fill all of anothers needs. I read a post in another thread that said couples should each give 90 percent and expect 10 percent back and the reason so many are unhappy and unsatisfied is that they expect 50/50 and it doesn't work.

[chasio649]

so in your divorce you share not one ounce of blame?