[chasio649]

so in your divorce you share not one ounce of blame?

[HeartofGold]

Good question. I don't have a ready answer for that. I don't feel quilty about my decision. I was married for 21 years and I do feel like I was a good wife to him. I loved him and worked as his partner in business. As far as blame, I don't know what I could have done differently. He was the one to be unfaithful and mean.

[chasio649]

well i can only go by what you say....i just know that there are always underlying issues with both parties to a divorce...talk to the woman you get one story...talk to the man you get another. So if i talked to your husband he would say you were a wonderful wife and he was a mean pig and just could handle your goodness?? come on....you're just playing the part of a helpless vitim...heard that one before...many times.