[Theo]

Hey there, my friend,

Face-to-face accountability/counsel is just a great thing. I'd recommend finding someone at your church that you trust, and who you and your wife consider pretty wise, and bring your situation to that person (either alone or with your wife). It'll take a whole lot of humility, but it's pretty much necessary. "The Doctrine of Repentance" is a great book to read -- I read it when going through some rough times....

Ted.

[hope]

Excellent advice, Theo...

Genesis, my prayers are for you and your wife that you both will seek the Lord diligently...