Exactamundo, kayak.
Miss Marple ... I didn't know you could take off the panel ... I'll try a new pad ... and then do surgery if required ... HA!
And my grandkids are now officially ping-pong balls ...... *sigh*
The prevailing theories by the psychobabblists are that it's essential that children spend time with both parents ...... thus the children will bounce back and forth between their mother's and their father's a couple of times a week, never having any sense of security and belonging ....... it breaks my heart. But daughter was essentially blackmailed into agreeing to this. It was that or have all her medical records and her history paraded in court ...... and they are not pretty at all.
Everything will be re-negotiated next year when grandson starts to school.