[Post Toasties]

Another is having a good fight ever now and then, you have to care to fight, and then forget it.

I strongly disagree with this. People who fight are likely to say things that they don't mean, wouldn't say otherwise and will regret later. I almost always think fights are foolish, upsetting and embarrassing and generally not the way to solve problems effectively. If you disagree with this, tell me where I'm wrong.

[wingnuts'nbolts]

I don't think your stance on fighting is wrong, or right. When people live together they tend to disagree every so often, and even have a fight. One has to watch about that hitting below the belt stuff. But, even so, if one does have a fight with one's spouse when it's over let it go. If you have a relationship where fighting doesn't happen, great! I wasn't referring to a physical fight here, just a word battle every now and then.