Why should a boy have to live without support from both parents because his father doesn't want to accept responsibility for his actions? Where is your concern for the rights of these boys?
Lot's of poor baby boys grow up without fathers, or mother's for that matter, and do just fine. In a perfect world, courtship, marriage, babies, mom and dad bring them up. But it is a far from perfect world.You really can't force, or sue anybody into being a good parent.