[palo verde]

it may be generational thing
Richard was in OSS in WW 11
he's different generation from you
you have girlfriend who doesn't mind that you don't marry her
it's possible Richard had girlfriend like that, but less likely in those times than now

[westmex]

Living in sin was frowned on by that generation...Think that all went to he!! in the 60s.....lol...
.....Westy...