I know, I know...but I'm still going to have trouble showing it, I think, as it's bound to be a)completely implausible, and / or b)full of syrupy or overly dramatic / tragic stuff. I always end up killing off half my people, for one. ;-)
Congrats on finding another name! I picked names for my four main characters, but I'm not completely satisfied, so I imagine I'll be doing changes up until the last moment.
Anyone who has a secret sadistic streak and would really like to name their kid "Amyara Lei Darling" should write fantasy instead, don't you think?