[Double Tap]

I just asked my boyfriend this question, and he said that unless the man thinks that the wife is the best thing in bed that he will ever hope to find, he's going to look for it elsewhere.

No offense intended, but you better have a second look at the guy your dating. If that is how he rates what a good wife is, your relationship is doomed at the start.

I've been happily married for 15 years, and good sex is part of a good marriage, but not all of it, not even a majority of it.

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good sex is part of a good marriage, but not all of it, not even a majority of it.

Here here. Actually most people get the equation backwards. Step one to good sex is a good relationship. Mind that's a completely different kind of "good" than Cosmo talks about, but I've had both, good relationship sex is the better of the two.