You and I have no disagreement. There are a lot of men who are jerks out there. I never cheated on my ex-wife and the next time I have sex will be on my wedding night if and when I meet a woman with whom I am a soulmate. Men who refuse to control their sexual behavior do not deserve a good woman' because they are 'bad' men whom no decent woman would either date or marry. I will control my sexual urges, as strong as they are, until I am married. Sex, while important, is a horrible basis for marriage; it should be a reflection of the overall relationship between a husband and wife.