My brother is a good man. He did nothing to deserve his divorce, but his wife took him for about a million dollars.
It isnt the women. It is the system.
The risk is all on men and only women get rewarded for marrying. Men always lose now when it comes to relationships.
There is no upside to marriage for the man.
We can all tell horrors about divorce, and the system is barbarism unmatched by anything else in modern civilization, so bad that our personal tales don’t come close to effectively describing its brutality and destructiveness to the male, to the concept of family, to children, and societal structure and its cause as a decline in the human condition for everyone and as a root cause for the collapse of Western Civilization.
But...the reality of these threads is that they are mostly about males who don’t do well with girls and are trying to rationalize their seeking the comfort of not trying to make it with females, it takes big balls to walk across that room a 100 times to occasionally score because you actually tried to strike up a conversation, and conversation is what leads to male/female relationships.
While complaining about the marriages that fail are a part of the threads, they are really about guys afraid of women and blaming women for not seeing how wonderful they are and them not doing the pursuing, in other words the females should walk across that room in their fantasy world that includes nonsense like you have to be taller than the poster to have relations with women, or that you have to have more money than the poster, or a better car than the poster.