We can all tell horrors about divorce, and the system is barbarism unmatched by anything else in modern civilization, so bad that our personal tales don’t come close to effectively describing its brutality and destructiveness to the male, to the concept of family, to children, and societal structure and its cause as a decline in the human condition for everyone and as a root cause for the collapse of Western Civilization.
But...the reality of these threads is that they are mostly about males who don’t do well with girls and are trying to rationalize their seeking the comfort of not trying to make it with females, it takes big balls to walk across that room a 100 times to occasionally score because you actually tried to strike up a conversation, and conversation is what leads to male/female relationships.
While complaining about the marriages that fail are a part of the threads, they are really about guys afraid of women and blaming women for not seeing how wonderful they are and them not doing the pursuing, in other words the females should walk across that room in their fantasy world that includes nonsense like you have to be taller than the poster to have relations with women, or that you have to have more money than the poster, or a better car than the poster.
Yeah, every Christian male thinks like you that it is the man’s fault, until it is he who is getting the divorce and having to go get another job because thevsystem demands youbare forever married financially. But she is not obligated to you in or out of marriage.
Hypergamy, a gift from God to allow women to marry the best male thay can has becime a mental illness because it has been twisted and corrupted by Satan’s minions.
Yeah, every Christian male thinks like you that it is the man’s fault, until it is he who is getting the divorce and having to go get another job because thevsystem demands youbare forever married financially. But she is not obligated to you in or out of marriage.
Hypergamy, a gift from God to allow women to marry the best male thay can has becime a mental illness because it has been twisted and corrupted by Satan’s minions.
Yes, there are lots of young men who are unemployed, underemployed, still living with mom and dad into their 20s or even 30s, addicted to porn and gaming, etc.
However, putting all of the blame on the fraction of loser men misses the obvious point that lots of young women these days aren't exactly prize pigs themselves thanks to feminist ideology, strange behavior, extreme narcissism encouraged by social media, and hookup culture (which takes two to tango). Add to that a legal system and social stricture that favors women in a boy-girl conflict, and there are plenty of reasons for why this isn't a "where have all of the good men gone" problem alone.
You are correct. I am trying to remove myself from that self-discouraging mindset as well.