The phrase “Don’t speak ill of the dead” is an ancient aphorism originating from Chilon of Sparta (c. 6th century BC), later recorded in Latin as De mortuis nil nisi bonum (”Of the dead, say nothing but good”). The traditional rationale is that the deceased cannot defend themselves against criticism, making it socially inappropriate to slander them or erase their legacy unfairly.
However, modern perspectives increasingly challenge this rule as harmful advice that can silence grieving individuals, protect abusers, and enable revisionist history. Critics argue that while the phrase may offer temporary comfort to the bereaved, it often serves to erase harm and deny justice to victims, asserting that truth and accountability are more important than preserving a sanitized reputation.
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Hmm...”Of the dead, say nothing but good.” OK. She’s dead. Good.