Well, you are working with a smaller universe, so your sample size is a lot smaller. Dirk did try to even the marriage score - since Black players were going for white women, he married a Black gal.
So did Travis Kelce. Or maybe he was just engaged. I think quite a few white athlete have black wives or girlfriends.
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Magic bragged about thousands of encounters. Tens of thousands. “I did my best to accommodate as many women as I could”.
He got AIDS. He accommodated.