Re “… .not going to retreat...”
Respect….
It it’s better to be with people who think like you and share your values. Family should reconsider if you’re in a bad area.
You only have one life; it’s worth protecting.
We are in a very liberal but actually good area...small resort like town. Our property is “alarmed”...we know when anyone comes near our house...and we live on a cliff. &:)