“Gee, what man doesn’t want to sign a one-sided contract with the government wherein the other party may cancel the contract at anytime to receive half the man’s assets, his house, the children and a salary for cheating on him? The settlement is then enforced by the government and its appointed court officers, representatives and enforcement officers.”
The same thing happened to me in my divorce. *I* was punished financially for *his* bad behavior!
Won’t make that mistake ever again. Happily divorced and plan to stay that way. :)
IMO whomever has the most assets is who they go after.
It’s just plunder of private assets.
My situation, too. The one difference is that my second husband was probably the best person I’ve ever known. We were married thirty years until his death.