One thing women really rate is when the ex they tried to destroy ends up doing better in life without them. It seems to drive them up a wall
It is not just women. Men too! My former SIL cannot deal with my daughter having remarried and moved on. He left his family for another woman! He has a permanent DVRO after 4 years of BS and he continues to create drama and abuse. The children are now pleading to not go on visitation, but my daughter follows what the court ordered as to visitation. She told the older daughter she might be able to talk to the judge in a few years. This former SIL threatened me and came close to body slamming me at a visitation exchange at the police station last year. His anger came from me requesting that he not come into my vehicle, but make the exchange outside. He completely blew up, slamming car doors, the children werefreaked out! I told him to go ahead and hit me because I would not get up until the ambulance arrived and his ass was in jail! Instead he slammed his truck door so hard I could hear the hinges tweak. My husband was in passenger seat. He insisted on coming to every exchange because he was worried about how former SIL would behave. My husband was not in good health. The following Sunday he had a massive stroke. We went through over 2-1/2 months of medical treatment…most of which was abuse before he passed away. Sorry, but this subject is a huge problem to me… it is not just women. Narcissists are male also.