What someone looks like, within limits, is irrelevant, when choosing a spouse. Obviously we might prefer a hairy bear or a skinny runner, but what’s inside is most important.
Honestly, I just went back to edit what I was going to post and I had typed “hairy bare” LOL
Looks you inherit and can’t do much except take care of skin. Body shape requires discipline and knowledge. People who are on very good shape past 40 tells me they value the only body they will ever have and are intelligent enough to know what must be done.