Weddings in Hobbs NM. Generally instigated by Latinas.
Not so much funerals. Gunfights are reserved for deciding who gets the crap vehicle, the tools, and ascertaining who is the real wife.
In Appalachia, it involves the murderer being related to the victim, even remotely. Put both families in the same room and it is on like Donkey Kong.
If a child dies, it is baby daddy’s family vs boyfriend’s family.