‘Sounds like a unique situation’
My FIL was salt of the earth nice guy. Veteran, home builder. Gentleman. He pushed the stroller for a minute when we were all at the zoo and my child would have been bear meat if I hadn’t kept an eye on matters
He was relegated to doing crosswords and drinking scotch - with me. My MIL would take over the house that’s a different story
Oh. Poker and candy land.