You can’t have lots of stuff if you have lots of kids.
I have more toys I can afford with no kids. Most of the people I know that have kids find out the kids reject the parents anyway.
Touché.
You can, but you will have to wait till they grow up and leave home. Even if you can afford “stuff”, they will break it or you simply won’t have time to use the “stuff”.
But at the end of journey, you will enjoy your kids and grandkids way more than you will the “stuff”.
I think it’s worth mentioning that Jim Robinson who founded FreeRepublic has passed recently and thank the good Lord that he had some children or we would not be having this discussion.