“That is their choice. It doesn’t affect any of us.” yes it does. It set expectations on others and what “should “ be the norm.
We all are going to die and trying to run from it is not healthy.
We are all going to die. And so?
Let us have a blast while we last and make death fight for every last inch of us. It is called the indomitable human spirit.
What other people do in their marriage is *their* business. It certainly doesn't affect me. Why should I care what they do as long as it's not illegal? What my neighbors do doesn't set any expectations for me. Let all of them take their kids to weird story hours, I'm not going to do it.