I just ordered her a big box of Amazon food. I have always fed her from my own refrigerator when “I happened to be cooking something. Here, try some.” and that’s all she ate that day. And I didn’t get paid a dime for it, except the satisfaction of seeing her enjoy the food. She pays me back for some of the things I front her money for, but not everything. So do not think to lecture me. I’m way ahead of you.
You are the one coming on a forum asking the silly question. People WILL judge you.
It’s good you stepped up for her.
Wow, you came here to help someone and became a punching bag. That’s too bad.