Who said anything about illegal?
According to a comment above, she is worth between 5 and 8 million dollars. What is she looking for in a man? Mostly a guy who can “pay the tab”. He needs to be an ATM for her because her money is her money. This is the same stuff Fani Willis was spouting. If the guy can’t “pay the tab” he’s a bum and she can do better (get access to mo’ money).
A lot of modern dating is transactional. If he can pay out good money, she would be willing to “reward him”. But if he cannot pay sufficiently, then he’s a bum and he ain’t gettin’ any. That’s really just prostitution.
Then why did she marry he previous husband?