There is absolutely no upside to getting involved in a violent dispute between two sub-Saharans. Even more so if the “victim” is a man who is perfectly capable of defending himself.
I was reminding people of how actual sexism works, when violence is involved people become traditionalists
and the real threat would be stepping in to protect the male from a female attack, which would mean any physical action would be directed at the female, and no one wants to be in that role.