Lindy, I think I see the problem, and it's not the men. Yes, that's her below. That's her "X" photo.
Hot?
No.
Lukewarm.....................
She is very pretty. My brain immediately shifts into “just looking mode”, just like at a museum.
Like I posted above...an attitude of entitlement because of her looks? Men, and decent people in general, find that arrogance unattractive.