As a woman you do not understand men.
Porn is not the cause of problems with women. Porn is the solution to problems with women.
If you know anything about marriages, the large majority of women entrap men into marriage and the sex falls off drastically. Research some on the stats of sexless marriages. This is done by the women in almost all cases. Straight men do not get married to not have sex.
Shutting off sex is disrespedting the marriage contract and duties of a spouse, as marriage inherently has sex in it as long as both people are able to (union of husband and wife). Refusing to or shutting it down to a sexless marriage, is rejection of the marriage vows. That spouse has abandoned the vows and effectively left the union.
Men would rather have regular sex with their wives. The ones who dont want to divorce for withholding of affection, or stay married and have affairs, may well trun to porn to deal with their sexul needs since the wife has turned away from the vows and his needs.
But as a woman I know you will never understand this, even having it explained and spoonfed to you. So don’t bother me ever again, I’d rather talk to a door.
As a jilted husband manu years ago, your post has much truth.
3 kids...12, 6, 5....and she used the “family court” and a completely immoral and untruthful “family law attorney” to get what she wanted ($$$$).
there are women aplenty who initiate, do not withhold, etc... but the men can’t be receptive because they have ONGOING soul wounds, childhood traumas, insecurities that they need to address with coping mechanisms other than pornography and the like.
that all being said, so many marriages are thriving beautifully and praise God for that. :)
And lets not forget, women watch porn and enjoy it. They also are heavily into erotic books/graphic romance novels, which is also fantasy porn. They also have a large array of vibrators and dildos and little lipstick buzzers they use all on their own too. So men do not hold any monopoly on this kind of thing whatsoever.