And lets not forget, women watch porn and enjoy it. They also are heavily into erotic books/graphic romance novels, which is also fantasy porn. They also have a large array of vibrators and dildos and little lipstick buzzers they use all on their own too. So men do not hold any monopoly on this kind of thing whatsoever.
Some people bring pre-existing addictions INTO the marriage, and are under the impression that marriage will solve their problems — then they’re in it, and they have a partner who is more than willing to meet their needs — but because their brains have dopamine receptor issues, and other traumas remain embedded, the addictions re-emerge!