In the Bible the fall of Man is ascribed to Adam, not Eve even though she ate from the tree first. And only another man, Jesus could pay the sacrifice. SO: God would argue his sons of Adam needs to step it up and become sons of Christ instead.
And the porn and other addictions need to be dealt with. Childhood traumas, the wounds of fatherlessness.
God is father to the fatherless.
The women of today are rebellious and do not properly submit as Christian wives, and whore about in the twenties, expecting men to wife them up after they see their looks going and eggs drying up. They, like you, demand men to “step up” be traditional, and wife up the town bicycle, yet are not traditional themselves.
So theres no point getting involved with them.