The women of today are rebellious and do not properly submit as Christian wives, and whore about in the twenties, expecting men to wife them up after they see their looks going and eggs drying up. They, like you, demand men to “step up” be traditional, and wife up the town bicycle, yet are not traditional themselves.
So theres no point getting involved with them.
I don’t know where your bitterness comes from. There are plenty of quality men AND women left...but the saddest stories are of women who DID devote their lives to their home, to pleasing their husbands — and yet their husbands still chose pornography.