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Crying at work: A sign of strength, weakness or just being human? [not satire?]
bbc ^ | Faarea Masud and Karen Hoggan

Posted on 07/05/2025 6:01:50 AM PDT by BenLurkin

Pictures of a weepy UK Chancellor Rachel Reeves dominated the newspaper front pages and TV news after her tearful appearance at Prime Minister's Questions earlier this week.

Anecdotally, it's not unusual to cry at work. Several people got in touch with the BBC to tell us about their experiences.

Clara, 48, from Lancaster, said she had become emotional when she was a young graduate getting a "blasting", and years later "in frustration".

"I've also cried after receiving bad news from home and left work immediately."

Emma, meanwhile, felt she had to keep her emotions under wraps because she worked in "a tough male-dominated environment" and would give herself a hard time for "showing emotion or 'weakness'."

Although some research has suggested women are more likely than men to cry, plenty of men told us they had also shed tears in front of colleagues.

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A 38-year-old from London who works in finance said he had become emotional at work when dealing with personal issues and felt it showed "a professional dedication" to still turn up.

So is crying a strength or a weakness? Executive coach and success mentor Shereen Hoban says it's old-fashioned to think weeping at work is unacceptable.

"We've moved beyond the old-school idea that professionalism means leaving emotion at the door," she says. "In today's world, emotional intelligence is a strength, not a liability."

Career coach Georgia Blackburn says it's not unusual for people at work to be upset, so firms need to know how to handle and support staff who are feeling a bit fragile.

Ultimately, she says it will mean workers get more done.

"An employer that truly listens, shows compassion and understanding, is so much more likely to keep their staff motivated and happier in the long run," she says.

(Excerpt) Read more at bbc.com ...


TOPICS: Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: basketcase; emotionallability; lability; nocryinginbaseball; weepy
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1 posted on 07/05/2025 6:01:50 AM PDT by BenLurkin
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Supposedly this is a serious article, but to me it reads like satire.


2 posted on 07/05/2025 6:02:50 AM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is opinion or satire. Or both.)
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To: BenLurkin

Better than a ‘Stan’.

Kabish? Think Middle East.


3 posted on 07/05/2025 6:03:24 AM PDT by DIRTYSECRET
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To: BenLurkin

Don’t bring your work home and don’t bring your home to work.
You’ll have a better life.


4 posted on 07/05/2025 6:09:37 AM PDT by Harpotoo (Being a socialist is a lot easier than saving to WORK of !US:-)p)
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To: BenLurkin

And any male who says a single word to her while she’s crying immediately gets referred to HR...


5 posted on 07/05/2025 6:13:13 AM PDT by glorgau
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To: BenLurkin

“An employer that truly listens, shows compassion and understanding, is so much more likely to keep their staff motivated and happier in the long run,” she says.


Yes, and while we’re at it, I want steak for dinner, pancakes for breakfast and apple pie for dessert, every day. Oh, and world peace.


6 posted on 07/05/2025 6:18:44 AM PDT by Flaming Conservative ((Pray without ceasing))
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To: BenLurkin

A sign you need a new job.


7 posted on 07/05/2025 6:21:46 AM PDT by brownsfan (It's going to take real, serious, hard times to wake the American public.)
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To: Flaming Conservative

Always ask for a pony. You can give it up in negotiation, to seem flexible, but always ask.


8 posted on 07/05/2025 6:24:13 AM PDT by gundog (The ends justify the mean tweets. )
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To: BenLurkin
"We've moved beyond the old-school idea that professionalism means leaving emotion at the door," she says. "In today's world, emotional intelligence (??) is a strength, not a liability."

Translation: workplace entropy, brought to you by the drama queen demographic.

9 posted on 07/05/2025 6:33:44 AM PDT by Ezekiel (🆘️ "Come fly with US". 🔴 Ingenuity -- because the Son of David begins with MARS ♂️, aka every man)
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To: BenLurkin
A couple weeks ago, one of our church leaders asked each of us to "name a song that makes you cry." My choice was She Knows Her Onions by the California Ramblers.
10 posted on 07/05/2025 6:34:48 AM PDT by Fiji Hill
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To: BenLurkin
I don’t cry.
I just scream and rant.

But luckily I rarely break anything.

11 posted on 07/05/2025 6:37:55 AM PDT by GaltAdonis
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To: BenLurkin

Women have ruined the workplace.


12 posted on 07/05/2025 6:39:13 AM PDT by bankwalker (Feminists, like all Marxists, are ungrateful parasites.)
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To: BenLurkin

I find it very difficult to believe that any man would cry at work, no matter what this article says.


13 posted on 07/05/2025 6:39:15 AM PDT by rod5591
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To: Fiji Hill

Or Green Onions by Booker T. and the MGs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0oox9bJaGJ8


14 posted on 07/05/2025 6:39:36 AM PDT by brookwood (America Was Built By MS-13. We Are A Nation Of MS-13.)
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To: BenLurkin

You want to talk about frustration?
Cave man


15 posted on 07/05/2025 6:43:27 AM PDT by Vaduz
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To: gundog

😂


16 posted on 07/05/2025 6:46:49 AM PDT by Flaming Conservative ((Pray without ceasing))
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To: BenLurkin

The typical leftist approach for handling “a tough male-dominated environment” is by making men weaker and less able to do their jobs.


17 posted on 07/05/2025 6:48:50 AM PDT by Telepathic Intruder
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To: brownsfan
A sign you need a new job.

...or new coworkers.

I've worked with some who nearly made me weep for humanity.

18 posted on 07/05/2025 6:53:01 AM PDT by T.B. Yoits
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To: rod5591

Are you kidding? Today’s “latte boy/man”?


19 posted on 07/05/2025 6:55:35 AM PDT by albie
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To: BenLurkin

attention seekers plain and simple... If I was there and walked by and seen someone crying aloud, male or female, my response would be Shut up Stupid...


20 posted on 07/05/2025 6:58:43 AM PDT by sit-rep (START DEMANDING INDICTMENTS NOW!!!!!)
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