can’t even imagine those catastrophes. Your perseverance is heroic.
By contrast, what would you say was your best decade?”
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This will confuse you...
The best for me was the 70s.
I had my husband, my family, my home. It never got any better and the losses never stopped.
I guess your life is a lesson in seizing joy when you find it. Because it may turn out to be rare and precious.