It is not “hypocrisy” when you want the best deal you can get.
That is what everyone (both sexes) wants.
What is different is that men don’t whine that “all the good women are taken”.
Almost all men in that situation understand that their short-comings are part of the issue—and it is their burden to improve those.
Most women are in deep denial about their short-comings—so of course there is nothing to improve.
Wrong. But men won’t believe it.