I’ve adopted 2 kids. Does that make me a failure as a man?
Being a "beta male" is not equivalent to being a failure.
Also: You don't state whether you adopted the two children of your wife, or if you and your wife simply adopted two children from an agency.
There is a world of difference there.
Regards,
“Being a “beta male” is not equivalent to being a failure.”
You get it.
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