I don’t find it sick.
I’m happy for you.
It just doesn’t change reality or probabilities or statistics. I’m happy for men that beat the odds, but they are very few, and they aren’t reasons to change the advice I’d give to any guys asking about relationships and marriage, as things stand right now.
Given the legal system these days I’d tend to agree.
Milk the cow and if is a keeper then keep it,
else send it to slaughter.